{"id":6808,"date":"2022-02-16T19:28:49","date_gmt":"2022-02-16T16:28:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/?p=6808"},"modified":"2022-02-24T21:03:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T18:03:12","slug":"gagand-ve-biz-irfan-karabulut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/?p=6808","title":{"rendered":"Ga\u011fand ve Biz"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"\"irfan Karabulut<\/strong><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
30 Aral\u0131k 2021<\/a><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0\u00b7\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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GA\u011eAND VE B\u0130Z<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Her g\u00fcn biraz daha uzakla\u015f\u0131yoruz birbirimizden. O iyi adamlar, bizden \u00f6nceki nesiller g\u00fcn be g\u00fcn kayboluyor. Hemmide bize anlat(a)mad\u0131klar\u0131, \u00f6\u011fret(e)medikleri sadece uygulamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcrel miraslar\u0131 zihinlerinde saklayarak d\u00f6nmemek \u00fczere gidiyorlar. So\u011fuk demir atlara binenler geride b\u0131rakt\u0131klar\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretilerin gelecek nesillere ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131nda kayg\u0131l\u0131lar. \u00c7a\u011f\u0131n nesilleri teknolojik farkl\u0131 k\u00fcltleri benimserken zaten \u00e7ok az bildi\u011fi ge\u00e7mi\u015fini ne \u00e7abukta unutmaya hevesli. \u0130nanc\u0131n boyunduru\u011fu alt\u0131nda bildik \u00f6\u011fretileri de unutarak ateist g\u00f6mle\u011fini giymeye pek de hevesli. \u00d6tekile\u015ftirilince de beygir tepmi\u015f gibi gerisin geri cebinde kalan ufak k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 kan\u0131t olarak sunmaya yeltenir. Hi\u00e7 bir zaman ge\u00e7 kal\u0131nm\u0131\u015f say\u0131lmaz asl\u0131nda. Oysa cesaretle \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lan yolda do\u011frudan sapmadan, \u00f6\u011fretileri es ge\u00e7meden bir orman gibi karde\u015f\u00e7e ve binlerce h\u00fcr nefer yeti\u015ftirebiliriz. Ey divane yas\u0131 matem, \u00fc\u00e7 aylar, H\u0131z\u0131r nedir? Cem ga\u011fand, niye yap\u0131l\u0131r. \u00d6zde \u2018eline diline beline sahip olmak nas\u0131ld\u0131r? \u015eerri def, hayra niyaz\u0131 Lokma ni\u00e7in da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r biliyor musun? \u015eimdi bana \u2018elin adam\u0131 aya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor sen hala nerelerdesin?\u2019 diyeceksen de durma s\u00f6yle. Hayat\u0131n\u0131 bu i\u015fe adam\u0131\u015f \u00fc\u00e7 be\u015f cesurla bu i\u015f y\u00fcr\u00fcmez. Top yekun sava\u015fmal\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcne \u00fcst\u00fcne giderek \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n vebas\u0131 internet ve medya platformlar\u0131nda k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferleri yaymak gerekir. Yumru\u011funu balyoz yaparak vura vura sahiplenmelisin sana ait olana sar\u0131lmal\u0131s\u0131n. \u0130\u015fte sana, bana, ona ve bizlere f\u0131rsat.<\/div>\n
Mezopotamya\u2019da unutulmaya y\u00fcz tutmu\u015f \u00f6rf, adet, gelenek, g\u00f6reneklerden biri olan ga\u011fand; geride b\u0131rak\u0131lan y\u0131l\u0131n son Aral\u0131k ay\u0131 son per\u015fembe g\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr. Emekler harcanarak ac\u0131, tatl\u0131, kazan\u00e7 ve kay\u0131plar unutulmak istenirken, bol bereketli bir seneyi kar\u015f\u0131lamak i\u00e7in haz\u0131rl\u0131klar yap\u0131l\u0131r. Anadolu k\u0131rsal\u0131nda uygulanan gelenekte O g\u00fcn zengin, fakir, a\u011fa, k\u00f6yl\u00fc, farkl\u0131 inan\u00e7l\u0131, bedensel engelli vs s\u0131fatlar ortadan kalkarken, herkes g\u00fcc\u00fc yetti\u011fince ga\u011fend haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131na hizmet i\u00e7in ko\u015fu\u015fturur. Ya\u015fl\u0131 bir ga\u011fan dedesi (Q\u00e2l) s\u0131rt\u0131nda torbas\u0131 yan\u0131nda gen\u00e7 e\u015fini (Fat\u0131k\u00e9)temsil eden biriyle hanelerden g\u00f6n\u00fcl r\u0131zas\u0131 \u201cGa\u011fand\u00e9 ma b\u0131mbarek bo \/ga\u011fand\u0131m\u0131z kutlu olsun..\u201d s\u00f6ylemiyle bu\u011fday, un, ceviz, pestil, kuru kays\u0131, badem, kuru \u00fcz\u00fcm vs toplar. Pe\u015findeki \u00e7ocuklarda e\u011flenerek oyunlar oynayarak e\u015flik ederler. Q\u00e2l ge\u00e7en y\u0131l\u0131n temsili olup vedala\u015fmaya, gen\u00e7 e\u015fi Fat\u0131k\u00e9 ise yeni y\u0131l\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lanmay\u0131 temsil eder.<\/div>\n
Sayg\u0131da kusur edilmeksizin her hanede veya b\u00fcy\u00fck bir evde toplan\u0131l\u0131r. Hane halk\u0131 ve misafirler tela\u015f tema\u015fa i\u00e7inde haz\u0131rl\u0131k yapar. \u00dc\u00e7 g\u00fcn hak yoluna (riy\u00e2 h\u00e9k) oru\u00e7 tutulup kutsal yerler ziyaret edildikten sonra en iri ko\u00e7lar se\u00e7ilip s\u00fcr\u00fcs\u00fcnden ayr\u0131l\u0131r. Ahaliden toplanan her nevi erzak ga\u011fand evine teslim edilir. Y\u0131ld\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn (ser\u00e9 sal\u00e9) sabah\u0131 evden temiz pak k\u0131yafetlerle evlenerek ayr\u0131lan k\u0131z karde\u015fler hala, teyze (zeyi) \u00e7e\u015fitli hediyelerle ziyaret edilerek ( bar\u00e2 zeyi) unutulmay\u0131p de\u011fer verildi\u011fi kan\u0131tlan\u0131r. Harmanda pi\u015firilecek yemekler i\u00e7in kazanlar kurulup alt\u0131na kesilmi\u015f kuru me\u015fe, kavak, odunlar\u0131ndan ate\u015f yak\u0131l\u0131r. Maharetli erkekler kasketlerini ters \u00e7evirip imam edas\u0131yla se\u00e7ili ko\u00e7lar\u0131 dualarla kesip derilerini \u00e7erm denen tulum \u015fekliyle b\u0131\u00e7aks\u0131z y\u00fczme gayretine girerler. Ki bu deriler daha sonra bolca tuzlanarak g\u00fcne\u015fte kurulmaya b\u0131rak\u0131lacakt\u0131. \u0130yice kuruyan deri temizlenip kullan\u0131ma uygun hale geldikten sonra ayran yay\u0131\u011f\u0131, su tulu\u011fu, \u00e7\u00f6kelek ve peynir saklamada kullan\u0131l\u0131r. Kara kazan ba\u015f\u0131nda b\u0131y\u0131klar\u0131 terli yetme gen\u00e7ler yavuklusuna maharet ispatlay\u0131p bulgur pilav\u0131, etli kuru fasulye, \u00e7orba pi\u015firirler. Bir kazanda toplanan bu\u011fdaylar kaynar suyla ha\u015flanarak yumu\u015fat\u0131l\u0131r. Daha sonra ha\u015flanan bu\u011fday (hedik) bereket getirmesi amac\u0131yla hane, ah\u0131r, su ve do\u011faya serpilir. Tuzlan\u0131p yenmek i\u00e7in da\u011f\u0131t\u0131lan hedikler iplere dizilerek y\u0131l boyunca tavanlarda as\u0131l\u0131 kal\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Kutsal ziyaretg\u00e2h kayna\u011f\u0131ndan al\u0131nan bir tas su sade veya tuz kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131p bacadan haneye, dualar okunarak i\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f mek\u00e2na ve do\u011faya dualar e\u015fli\u011finde serpilir. Bekar k\u0131zlar reng\u00e2renk fistanlar\u0131yla ortal\u0131k yerde g\u00f6r\u00fcc\u00fcye \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na su ta\u015f\u0131ma, ev s\u00fcp\u00fcrme, davar sa\u011fma vs her i\u015fe ko\u015fu\u015fturur. Al\u0131nlar\u0131 mor d\u00f6vmeli yeti\u015fkin evli kad\u0131nlar ba\u015flar\u0131ndaki siyah kalpa\u011f\u0131yla (k\u00f6m veya kom ) mutfakta caka at\u0131p hamur yo\u011furarak bir adam boyu yufka ve mayal\u0131 sac ekme\u011fi yapar. K\u00f6m\u00fcr ate\u015finin alt\u0131na koyduklar\u0131 ya\u011f ile yo\u011frulmu\u015f hamur tepsilerini k\u0131zartarak genelde \u00f6zel davetler ve misafirlere ikram edilen par\u011fa\u00e7 (kete), ke\u015fkek, z\u0131lfet ile ince yufkadan yap\u0131lan sar\u0131msakl\u0131, yo\u011furt ve tereya\u011fl\u0131 s\u0131r\u0131m yemekleri haz\u0131rlar. Erginlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 delikanl\u0131lar arkas\u0131 ku\u015flu ayna, tarak, k\u0131zlar ise kenar\u0131 i\u015flemeli mendille boy g\u00f6sterirler. Gelecekteki e\u015fin se\u00e7ilece\u011fi tek e\u011flencede bahis tutarak yumurta toku\u015fturmak i\u00e7in sabrederler. Bilhassa bulu\u011f \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 k\u0131z, erkekler k\u00f6y yerinde ev ay\u0131rmaks\u0131z\u0131n ne kadar hindi, kaz, tavuk besleyen varsa hepsinden yumurtalar\u0131 toplar. Toku\u015fturmak i\u00e7in y\u00fczlerce yumurta kaynat\u0131larak \u00e7e\u015fitli renklere boyan\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca yine el birli\u011fiyle kuru \u00fcz\u00fcm, pestil, \u00e7ir (elma, armut kurusu) ceviz ve petekli bal ile tatl\u0131 yap\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7in kabak ga\u011fend evine ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131r. Yay\u0131klarda ayranlar so\u011fusun diye da\u011f kayna\u011f\u0131 suyuna yat\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Ak\u015fam olup yerler da\u011f ta\u015f m\u00fch\u00fcrlendi\u011finde davul zurna e\u015fli\u011finde \u015fenlikler ba\u015flar. Ba\u015f k\u00f6\u015fe y\u00fcksek makam say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan s\u0131rt yast\u0131kl\u0131 oturmal\u0131k d\u00f6\u015fekler serilerek s\u00f6z sahibi pir m\u00fcr\u015fit dede soyundan gelenlere ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu mertebede oturanlar inanc\u0131n sayg\u0131s\u0131 gere\u011fi s\u00f6z vermedik\u00e7e kimse konu\u015famaz. Ancak verilen izinle konu\u015fup oturur. Ortaya misafirlerin ula\u015f\u0131labilece\u011fi \u015fekilde \u00fczeri meyve, kuruyemi\u015f dolu bak\u0131r bir sini konulur. D\u0131\u015far\u0131da yeni ay e\u015fli\u011finde co\u015fkuyla halay \u00e7ekilip z\u0131lg\u0131tlar ar\u015fa y\u00fckselirken umut ve dualarla bereketli bol kazan\u00e7l\u0131 yeni y\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r. Harmana kurulmu\u015f sofralarda ahbap, e\u015f, dost tan\u0131d\u0131k tan\u0131mad\u0131k kad\u0131n erkek bir arada beraber yemekler yenir. Arada ya\u015fl\u0131lar (\u00e7irok) hik\u00e2ye, sesi g\u00fczel (dengbejler) ozanlar saz e\u015fli\u011finde t\u00fcrk\u00fc ve a\u011f\u0131tlarla halaylar \u00e7ekerek geceye renk katarak ge\u00e7 saatlere kadar oturup kay\u0131plar\u0131 anar eskiyi y\u00e2d ederler. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck topluluklardan ibaret k\u0131rsal k\u00f6ylerde itikat \u00f6nderi \u015fahitli\u011finde akrabal\u0131k ba\u011flar\u0131 evlilik, kirvelik ve musahiplik yoluyla \u00f6r\u00fcmcek a\u011f\u0131 misali \u00f6r\u00fclerek nesilleri daima \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131larak geni\u015fletilir. Ku\u015faklar aras\u0131 kuzenler had safhada olup, amca, teyze hala ve day\u0131lar i\u00e7 i\u00e7e kar\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Sok elini ta\u015f\u0131n alt\u0131na, sahiplen ananeyi, g\u00f6rene\u011fi bilindik ne varsa. Ve bende sana alk\u0131\u015f tutay\u0131m, tutal\u0131m, tutulsun. Konu\u015f(a)masan, da dillendir telli turnay\u0131 d\u00f6k i\u00e7ini sa\u00e7\u0131ls\u0131n inciler bilinsin hakikat. Unutma ki gelecekte unutup tenezz\u00fcl etmedi\u011fin de\u011ferlerin g\u00fcn gelecek ba\u015fkalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan allan\u0131p pullanarak sana enjekte edilecek. Allah a\u015fk\u0131na o vakit ne yapacaks\u0131n? \u2018Ee ben bunu daha evvelden ninelerimden yar\u0131m yamalak biliyorum, san\u0131r\u0131m bize ait\u2026\u2019 diyerek sahipleneceksen bo\u015fa \u00e7abalama. \u2018At\u0131 alan \u00dcsk\u00fcdar\u2019\u0131 ge\u00e7ti sana \u2018yaz\u0131klar\u2019 bize \u2018ge\u00e7mi\u015f\u2019 onlara da \u2018hay\u0131rlar\u2019 ola. Cehaleti \u00f6fke, top, t\u00fcfek, gaz, mermiyle de\u011fil, iyilik e\u011fitim \u00f6\u011freti ve bilgelikle sava\u015farak \u015fah mat etmek gerekir. Hadi hep beraber bizi biz yapan de\u011ferlere sahip \u00e7\u0131kal\u0131m.<\/div>\n
Affola haddimi a\u015ft\u0131ysam. Affola s\u00fcr\u00e7-i lisan ettiysem e\u011fer\u2026<\/div>\n
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irfan Karabulut 30 Aral\u0131k 2021\u00a0\u00a0\u00b7\u00a0 GA\u011eAND VE B\u0130Z Her g\u00fcn biraz daha uzakla\u015f\u0131yoruz birbirimizden. O iyi adamlar, bizden \u00f6nceki nesiller g\u00fcn be g\u00fcn kayboluyor. Hemmide bize anlat(a)mad\u0131klar\u0131, \u00f6\u011fret(e)medikleri sadece uygulamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcrel miraslar\u0131 zihinlerinde saklayarak d\u00f6nmemek \u00fczere gidiyorlar. So\u011fuk demir atlara binenler geride b\u0131rakt\u0131klar\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretilerin gelecek nesillere ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131nda kayg\u0131l\u0131lar. \u00c7a\u011f\u0131n nesilleri teknolojik farkl\u0131 k\u00fcltleri benimserken …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6808","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-duyurular"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6808","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6808"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6808\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7009,"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6808\/revisions\/7009"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/avruparicik.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}